Hotwifing 101
Hotwifing and why do it?
What is a Hotwife?
A Hotwife is a woman that enjoys having sex with other men and women, therefore being shared by her partner with others, embracing her sexuality.
How does it enhance relationships?
It fosters trust, communication, and intimacy, allowing partners to explore desires together while strengthening their bond. It means never taking your partner for granted or boredom creeping in.
Why call it a Submissive Hotwife?
No, it's a personal choice. Open communication and consent are essential for any couple considering this lifestyle.
What are the risks involved?
Potential emotional challenges and negative jealousy may arise, requiring honest discussions and boundaries.
How to start exploring?
Begin with open conversations about desires and boundaries to ensure mutual understanding and comfort.
Can it lead to jealousy?
Yes, jealousy can occur; however, positive jealousy as well as negative exists. With the right partner, and with openness and trust, the jealously can be positive. Setting the relationship alight with sexual energy, as well as never taking each other for granted.
Is it for everyone?
I add the term submissive to clarify my partner is not a cuckold. Our enjoyment does not comes from his humiliation, but from his control and decision to share or not.
My partner and I believe that Hotwifing is incredible for keeping a relationship exciting. Keeping that butterflies feeling you get in the first few months of a relationship, that can get lost when years and years into a relationship.
Long time couples naturally get lazy, get complacent, and stop making an effort. Get up, go to work, come home, eat, watch TV, or sit staring at a computer or mobile screen, then sleep. It is all to0 easy to forget your partner is sexy and has needs.
A man giving his woman permission to be sexy, to dress up, to flirt and feel good about herself, will mean she wants sex with him. It might be that the boundaries never go beyond that for some. For others positive jealousy is needed, positive meaning it gives you the kick up the arse you need to not get complacent, and to make sure your partner will want you when all is said and done.
My partner loves the constant challenge, proving that I will want to be his no matter how handsome, how sexy, how rich or how big a cock any other man is/has. He makes sure I want him in the end, by giving me all I could want, physically, mentally and even spoiling me gift wise. He makes sure you feel loved and safe, and that it all comes from belonging to him.
Some say if you love someone, let them go. And in a way that is what Hotwifing is, letting your woman go believing if it is true love between you and her, she will always come back to you. Even if it is only after a quick 20 minute fuck with someone. But if she spends the night with someone, that really tests the trust, communication and love. But what a buzz it is for you as a couple, positive jealousy giving a huge boost.
How we see it
